Spiritual Lovefare is an amazing and sacred process. When a spirit, other than an angel or guide, is found, Cathy's caseload increases. The original client, the one who originally came to her office, joins her as facilitator to bring healing to the detected spirits.

What do you mean by "those who have lost their way?"
When we die our path is to return to the Light (God). When a spirit does not do that it is lost. There are a number of reasons as to why spirits get lost. When the death is sudden, the spirit may not be aware that the body has died. Helping the spirit realize that the body is dead is the first step to releasement. Often, when the spirit becomes aware of bodily death, the spirit immediately leaves. Other spirits know that the body is dead but are stuck in what we call the astral plane. There are numerous reasons for their reluctance to go to God. Some spirits were addicted or obsessed with alcohol or other drugs, sex, food, people, work or something else. The addiction or obsession keeps them from realizing that they can leave. Some spirits believe that they must stay to help a loved one. Others are aware of how they hurt people in life and want to make up for it in some way, or are afraid to go to God.

How can the spirit of someone still living be attached to a person?
Cathy is not aware of all the dynamics. She does know that those who spend their lives focused on someone else cannot live their own lives to the fullest. Somehow part of their spirit stays with the person they are obsessed with. She see this most often with parents obsessed with children. Their children will often report how the parent will not allow them to grow up and was always controlling them.

"Those who have forgotten who they are" sound like demons?
"Demons" is a name that has been used to describe these beings. Cathy was taught since very young that the "bad" angels made a decision against God and could never unmake that decision. This belief is contained in the Catholic Catechism and in a Catholic Encyclopedia. Her experience is that God wants all of God's creation to return to God. God is infinite Love. There is no way as a limited human that we can begin to understand what infinite love is.

Cathy's experience, and that of others, has been that those of the dark side can make a new decision to return to God. The process is simple and only requires being in the heart when working with these spirits. She estimates that 98% make a new decision to rejoin God.

How do you do this?
Spiritual Lovefare, as is all Cathy's work, is done in the context of prayer. She calls upon the angels and saints, as well as the client's Higher Power, to help. They talk to the spirit just as Cathy would talk to a client. She leads the client in what to say and helps him or her stay in the heart. This is powerful and sacred work.

Isn't this scary?
There are times when she experiences fear. That is when Cathy reminds herself to go back to her heart. There is Love and there is fear. Love is the most powerful. She has found that the dark spirits are very afraid. They are punished when they fail. They have also been lied to. They believe that the Light will harm them more than they have ever experienced. Cathy has also discovered that these spirits will project fear onto her. The probable reason for them doing this is that she will become afraid and leave them alone. Once she discovered this she asked Spirit to help her discern between her fear and the fear of the spirits.

When the spirit connects with the spark of Light within, the atmosphere in the room changes. The feeling moves from one of anger or fear, to confusion, to "lightness."

How will I feel after Spiritual Lovefare?
Most people report feeling lighter. Parents have told me that their children who experienced Spiritual Lovefare acted differently in a good way. Many times obsessive thoughts and actions disappear. Children's behavior often changes for the better.

Can Spiritual Lovefare be done over the telephone?
Yes, contact Cathy to arrange a time. E-Mail: cathychapmanphd@gmail.com.